If you’re planning a wedding and feeling torn between something intimate or something really intimate, you’re not alone. As a Colorado photographer who specializes in small celebrations, I often get asked, “What’s the difference between a micro wedding and an elopement?” Spoiler: both are perfect for couples craving a meaningful, low-stress experience—but depending on your vision, one might be a better fit for your love story.

What is a Micro Wedding?

A micro wedding is a scaled-down version of a traditional wedding, usually with 10–50 guests. You still get the structure of a full wedding day—ceremony, dinner, maybe a dance floor or some toasts. But without the huge guest list and big-budget expectations. An event like this lets you celebrate with your closest people in a way that feels intentional, intimate, and relaxed. Whether it’s at a small venue, your favorite Airbnb, or a private estate tucked into the Colorado foothills, it’s all about keeping things simple without losing the magic.

What is an Elopement?

On the other hand, an elopement is typically centered around just the couple, or sometimes includes a few witnesses. Elopements in Colorado often happen in the mountains, at scenic overlooks, near alpine lakes, or even at a courthouse if you’re into that timeless, city vibe. They tend to be more spontaneous, relaxed, and experience-focused. There’s no formal reception or schedule to follow. You can get married at sunrise, hike to your ceremony spot, enjoy a post-vow picnic, or soak in the day with zero pressure. It’s less about performance and more about connection.

How a Micro Wedding Differs from an Elopement

While both options lean into intimacy and intention, the biggest difference between a micro wedding and an elopement is the guest count and overall structure. A micro wedding allows you to celebrate with a small group of your closest friends and family. While still holding onto some of the traditional wedding elements, you may love. You might walk down an aisle, share a first dance, or enjoy a seated dinner. All in a more scaled-down, meaningful way. An elopement, however, removes the guest list almost entirely. It’s centered around your relationship, your vows, and the freedom to experience your wedding day however you want.

Which One is Right for You?

Choosing between a micro wedding and an elopement really comes down to what feels most like you. A micro wedding is probably right for you if you dream of an intimate dinner with your people and a low-key party. It gives you the structure of a wedding day, without all the stress that comes with lots of guests. However, if you and your partner crave privacy, adventure, and an unhurried day about the two of you, an elopement might be exactly what you’re looking for. Both are beautiful, both are valid.

Whichever you choose, one thing is true: you deserve a day that feels like you. As a Colorado wedding photographer specializing in intimate celebrations, I love helping couples create experiences focused on connection and experiences. From helping you scout the perfect mountain overlook to building a laid-back timeline that doesn’t feel rushed, I’m here to guide and support you every step of the way.

So, if you’re not quite sure which path to take or if you’re ready to start planning your dream day, I’d love to hear all about your vision and help you bring it to life.

Inquire here about Colorado micro wedding or elopement photography!